我的野蠻同事 如何面對拍馬屁文化?
大多數人都痛恨拍馬屁文化,但如果拍馬屁可以加官晉爵、直達天聽,
也許你不知不覺也就成了馬屁精。那麼,到底問題出在哪裡?
所謂拍馬屁,指的應該是部屬事事遵從、附和上司,活像上司肚裡的應聲蟲,
甚至做出幫上司拎公事包等超過一般正常社交禮節的舉動,
目的不外乎藉著討好上司,在組織裡圖個人的加薪、升遷。
職場上會形成拍馬屁文化,
因為有喜歡拍馬屁的員工存在,及職場環境的文化使然。
人的個性因素比較難掌握,也不是組織該使力的部份,
因此,就組織而言,形成拍馬屁文化
主要有三種作用力:即企業文化、主管個人的領導風格以及評量員工表現的標準。
馬屁文化的溫床
雖說每種產業多少都會有拍馬屁文化,
但強調威權、父權式管理、單向式領導的組織,
尤其容易形成拍馬屁文化;因為決策權都掌握在老闆手中,
凡事都由這個「人」來判定,部屬自然非討好老闆不可。
除了威權式的組織文化,
重視人際關係互動勝於績效管理的企業,也是拍馬屁文化的溫床。
這顯然與衡量部屬表現的基礎有關,如果企業看中的不是以數字顯現的績效成果,
純粹以人緣、人際關係作為升遷標準的話,
部屬當然不務本,成天社交、拍上司馬屁。
但是,人際關係並不等同於專業能力,如此一來,擁有專業表現的部屬,
卻無法獲得升遷,形成不公平的組織環境。
就部屬個人而言,在職場上求生存,必須與主管保持良好的互動關係,
可是,怎麼做才不會被解讀為拍馬屁呢?
謹守一般社交禮儀的分際即可,
如上司生日時給予祝福、上司心情不好時給予關心,
避免在公開場合過份地卑躬屈膝、或過於露骨地體貼、附和上司。
尤其是剛進入職場的新鮮人,只要掌握一般社交禮儀,把握機會表現,
但不必急著引起上司注意。通常上司最在意新人是否願意學習,
如果新人謙虛、主動地提出疑問、
行事溫和不武斷、上司交派任務時不挑三撿四,
不靠逢迎拍馬,也能在上司眼中創造良好的形象。
不過,有一種情況是,
因為某些興趣或理念相同,部屬與上司之間特別投緣,
而受上司青睞時,千萬別恃寵而驕,
藉由上司對自己的倚重,在組織裡創造特權。
別因上司的看重,而忽略了與同事的關係,這時反而該小心應對,
才不會從眼紅的同事口中傳出拍馬屁的流言。
有一些可行的作法,如上司交付較佳的任務時,受賞識的部屬可以向上司暗示,
為求團隊和諧,建議將該任務交付團隊共同執行,讓其他同事也能有機會表現。
而在執行任務的過程中,
受賞識的部屬也應主動協助共事的伙伴,分享自己的專業知識與技術。
就上司的立場而言,相信大部分的上司都能理解這種情境,
而開始做出一些調整,即使關愛自己喜歡的部屬,
也會不露痕跡,以免引起其他部屬的不平。
被拍者需負最大責任
而主管必須對拍馬屁文化負最大責任,畢竟主管平日的作風、給部屬的回應,
決定了企業文化的良莠。
若遇到愛拍馬屁的部屬,上司最好找機會一對一明講,
先謝謝部屬的用心與體貼,但類似的動作,
請對方以後不要再做了,上司自己來就可以了;
順便談談績效的問題,讓部屬能意識到,
原來上司在意的是績效,而不是他的奉承。
談了這麼多消除拍馬屁文化或避免拍馬屁聯想的作法,
大家也別矯枉過正,吝於給予上司掌聲。
上司是孤獨的,所有的管理書上都要求主管必須激勵、肯定、獎勵部屬,
但是誰來關心上司呢?別忘了他們也是需要掌聲的一群。
部屬若想肯定上司、表示佩服,又不想被擴大解釋為拍馬屁時,有幾個要件:
上司的表現,必須是有目共睹的具體事實;誇讚時別只說「你好棒!」,
而應說出為什麼佩服上司;接著不妨表達自己的收穫與體會,
究竟學習到了什麼,才是真心的讚美,而非拍馬屁。
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